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Hi Reader,

If I look in my closet, there’s a clear discrepancy.

I have pieces I bought because they felt like the perfect elevated casual outfit.

The version of me who looks put together but still comfortable.
The one who shows up with a little more intention but it looks (and actually feels) effortless.

And then I have the pieces I actually wear.

The comfy, well-worn jeans.
The leggings that have basically become a second skin.
The things I grab out of habit, not intention.

Neither is wrong.
But the gap between them says something.

Most of us have a “future self closet”, not just in our wardrobe, but in our lives.

The habits we want to have.
The conversations we want to initiate.
The confidence we want to feel.
The possibilities we want to believe in.

And then there’s who we are on autopilot:

The overthinking.
The self-criticism.
The overwhelm.
The familiar patterns that keep us smaller than we want to be.

People don’t get stuck because they’re unmotivated.

They get stuck because the identity they feel drawn to requires choices they haven’t practiced making yet.

Becoming the next version of yourself isn’t about throwing out everything that’s comfortable.
It starts with noticing the gap and letting yourself define who you’re growing into.

To name her.
To understand her.
To see the patterns that keep pulling you back into an older version of yourself.

And then, with support, practicing choices that align with her
until they start to feel like home.

Not perfectly or instantly, but with the kind of steady awareness that makes real change possible.

If something in you feels ready for a shift, this one-page check-in helps you see the patterns you’ve outgrown and the version of you that’s starting to emerge.

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If anything stood out to you, reply and let me know. I’m always curious what comes to mind for you.
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All the best,

Jenine

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